Single parent families

A single-parent family is a family where one parent lives with their children without a partner. In this case, the parent may be a single parent or joint custody parent. A single parent bears the sole responsibility for their child’s upbringing. A joint custody parent agrees upon their child’s affairs with the other parent.

Read more about joint and sole custody on the InfoFinland web page Children in a divorce.

The Association of Single Parent Families (Yhden Vanhemman Perheiden Liitto) offers information and organises activities for single parent families. The Single Parents’ Association is a civic organisation founded by single parents which offers activities for its member families.

Maintenance (elatus) of a child means that a parent provides for the needs of a child under 18 and ensures that the child receives the necessary care and education.

If a child has two parents, both of them are responsible for the child’s maintenance, even if they do not live together. When parents separate, they have to reach an agreement concerning the maintenance of their children and possible child maintenance support (elatusapu). The parent who does not live with the child pays child maintenance to the parent living with the child.

The amount of child maintenance support is calculated on the basis on the child’s maintenance needs and the parents' maintenance capacity. The child’s maintenance needs refer to the sum of money that is needed to support the child on a monthly basis. It includes, for example, food and clothing costs and possible day care fees. The child’s maintenance needs are divided between the parents in accordance with their maintenance capacity. Maintenance capacity is calculated by subtracting taxes and other obligatory costs from the parent’s income. You can ask a child welfare supervisor (lastenvalvoja) to help you calculate the amount of child maintenance support.

Sometimes one of the parents pays child maintenance even if the child lives equally or almost equally with both parents. This may be the case, for example, if one of the parents has a greater maintenance capacity or pays a smaller share of the child’s maintenance costs.

It is advisable to make a written agreement on child maintenance support and have the child welfare supervisor confirm this agreement. More information on child maintenance support and confirming it is provided by the family law services of your area.

If parents cannot reach an agreement concerning child maintenance support, they can ask family mediation to help. Ultimately, the matter will be solved in a district court. More information on family mediation is available on the InfoFinland web page Divorce.

In some situations, the parent who is living with the child can apply for child maintenance allowance (elatustuki) from Kela.

You can apply for child maintenance allowance from Kela in the following situations:

• You are entitled to child support from the other parent, but they have not paid it.
• Child support has not been confirmed because the other parent’s income is low.
• The confirmed child support is lower than the child maintenance allowance due to the other parent’s low income.
• You have adopted a child alone.
• The child was born out of wedlock, the father has not been confirmed, and the child does not have two parents with maintenance obligations.
• The child was born into the marriage of the mother and her female partner, but the child does not have a confirmed father and the mother’s partner has not adopted the child.

You can receive child maintenance allowance if you live permanently in Finland. You may also receive child maintenance allowance if you have come to Finland to work from another EU or EEA member state or Switzerland. A child who resides permanently in Finland or stays temporarily abroad for a maximum period of 6 months is entitled to child maintenance allowance.

You can ask Kela for more information on child maintenance allowance.